If anyone be desolate, who’s fault is that? Not Mine, saith the Lord, for there is no fault in Me. The fault lies within you, for My word declares, The Lord redeems the soul of His servants, and none of them that trust in Him shall be desolate. So if you are desolate, check and see if you are really trusting in Me and remember that the heart is desperately wicked, who can know it? But as you come to Me and ask and seek, I will show you the state of your heart and then set you free and then you shall not be desolate.
There may be a need for spiritual understanding here; there are times of desolation due to circumstances but there is no condemnation from the Lord in those situations. May the Holy Spirit give you His understanding.